The Coastal Grandmother Way to Do Summer

If you’ve been around here for a while, you know I have a soft spot for that breezy, effortless style we all like to call coastal grandmother. Think Nancy Meyers movie scenes, seaside mornings with a big sunhat, and a table full of blue and white dishes ready for a slow, joyful meal. And honestly? There’s no better time than summer to lean into that vibe.
Here’s how I’m channeling coastal grandmother this season! From what I’m wearing to how I’m making my home (and days!) feel extra special.
What is a coastal Grandmother?
If you’re not familiar with the term coastal grandmother, let me tell you — it’s not just a trend. It’s really more of a lifestyle that celebrates those simple, beautiful moments that make life feel extra special. I’m talking about slow mornings with coffee on the porch, fresh flowers in a pitcher, breezy linen pieces you’ll want to live in, and creating a home that feels warm and welcoming. It’s that easy, effortless charm we see in our favorite Nancy Meyers movies — like Something’s Gotta Give, It’s Complicated, and The Holiday. And honestly? It’s a mood I’m always happy to channel, no matter the season.
The Coastal Grandmother Way to Do Summer
Breezy Summer Staples
I’m all about easy, classic pieces that feel polished but never fussy. Here’s what’s on repeat in my wardrobe:
- A white gauze button-down (perfect over a swimsuit or paired with your favorite denim shorts)
- Pink flowy midi and maxi dresses — soft stripes, pretty florals, anything that feels like a garden party on the coast
- A wide-brim straw hat (a must for those golden-hour beach strolls!)
- Raffia sandals or espadrilles that go with everything
- Oversized sunglasses that feel very Nancy on the porch with lemonade
Tip: I linked a few of my favorites below in case you want to build your own coastal grandmother capsule this summer.
A Home That Feels Like Summer
The coastal grandmother home is never overdone — just a few thoughtful touches that bring in that seaside charm:
- Blue and white plates or pitchers for easy outdoor dining
- Gingham or stripe napkins (because little details matter!)
- Fresh flowers from Trader Joe’s (hydrangeas, peonies — whatever makes you smile)
- Woven baskets to striped beach towels or picnic gear
- A striped throw for those cooler evenings on the porch
I love pulling out these pieces at the start of summer — it makes every day feel a little more special.
The Slow Rituals That Make Summer Sweet
And of course, coastal grandmother isn’t just a look — it’s a mood.
- Slow mornings with iced coffee on the porch
- A good book and a cozy spot in the shade
- Baking a fruit crisp with whatever looks best at the market
- A picnic at the beach with simple charcuterie and fresh bread
- Long walks before dinner, when everything feels golden
It’s about slowing down, savoring the little moments, and letting summer work its magic.
What’s in My Coastal Grandmother Cart
Here are a few fun finds I’m eyeing (or already scooped up) to live that coastal grandmother life this summer:
- A new straw tote for beach days and market runs
- A fresh pair of raffia sandals
- Pretty white dinnerware I can’t wait to use
- A striped shirt dress that’s just begging for a breezy dinner on the patio